Original Post Date: February 28, 2024
This week's wisdom is about opening doors, and about making the effort to hold them open for others to walk through.
Celebrating Women in Technology gives us many opportunities to reflect back on the black women trailblazers who went before us and persevered towards incredible achievements that made it possible for our modern society to exist. Now there are living trailblazers who are creating more opportunities.
This weekend I heard a radio program based on a New Yorker interview (it's not open access sadly) featuring actor Lily Gladstone, who is an Academy Award Nominee for Best Actress- the first Native Woman to be nominated - for their role in Killers of the Flower Moon. In the interview, Lily is asked what it's like being the first, getting all that attention, being the one to kick in the door. Their comment in response to that really stuck with me, so much that I had to look it up and share it with all of you! Because it gave me a new perspective on the challenges facing trailblazers who also consciously keep the new trails lighted and stand in the doorways holding them open.
Lily said "I’m friends with Sterlin Harjo, the co-creator of “Reservation Dogs.” We’re both in the circuit right now, and we happened to find ourselves in the same hotel the week before last. He put it really well. He said, “We’re in a position where we’re kicking the door in. When you kick the door in, you should just put your foot in the door and stand there.” Kicking the door in and running through it means it’s going to shut behind you. While I’m the first specifically Native American Indigenous woman, I stand on the shoulders of a lot of performers. It’s all circumstantial that I have this moniker of the first, and I’m certainly not going to be the last. If I’ve kicked the door in, I’m just trying to stand here and leave it open for everybody else."
As we close out Black History Month and enter Women's History Month, let's honor the people who opened doors for more of us to walk through. And let's hold the doors open for as many more people as we can!
All the best,
Holly