Hello all,
Last Friday's 5 Ally Actions from the Better Allies org listed this one below as their #4 Redefine masculine energy. As much as I loved the content of this ally action, what I really loved even more was the concept of redefining something that doesn't serve you or your values. We are not stuck with the definitions embraced by others. Yes, it takes courage and effort to redefine the status quo, but that's what communities like WIT are for.
#4 Redefine masculine energy
On a recent Joe Rogan podcast, Mark Zuckerberg said he thinks the corporate world would benefit from having more masculine energy. As Axios reported, “He didn’t explicitly define the term, but seemed to be relying on the broad stereotype that men are more aggressive than women: ‘I think having a culture that, like, celebrates the aggression a bit more has its own merits that are really positive,’ he said.”
In response, Brad Johnson, PhD posted on LinkedIn, “Mark Zuckerberg is right. We need More MASCULINE ENERGY in 2025!”
Johnson then boldly redefined what masculinity can and should look like as a partner, parent, and leader. Here are just some of the examples he provided:
- Take your full parental leave.
- Leave loudly for family events or caregiving to normalize this for others.
- Teach your sons to respect women and your daughters to demand respect.
- As a leader, embrace empathy, generous listening, humility, curiosity, collaboration, transparency, and accountability.
- Advocate for equity and inclusion.
- Courageously disrupt sexism and racism.
All are great actions for better allies.
For our SUNY WIT male identifying allies, if any of these actions can fit into your toolbox, that's great and thanks!
And let's redefine technology careers again by busting through some of the myths that have taken hold in the public perception. IBM has a blog post that features common women in tech stereotypes and then showcases real women in tech who disprove these. It's really inspiring, and makes me want to do something similar for SUNY. Check out the blog Breaking Down the Myths which Deter Women From a Career in Tech.
Then, please let me know if you or someone you know in SUNY would be willing to be featured in a new WIT Weekly Wisdom series called SUNY WIT Mythbusters that will profile SUNY employees.
The SUNY WIT Mythbusters series will run through the month of March for Women's History Month. Send in your profiles now!!
As an homage to IBM, we will start with the same 4 Myths they disprove in their blog.
- Myth #1: Women are not interested in or passionate about technology
- Myth #2: Tech careers are only for individuals with strong mathematical or technical skills
- Myth #3: Tech is a male-dominated field and not welcoming to women
- Myth #4: Women cannot balance family and personal life with a career in tech
All the best,
Holly