This week we are focusing on cleaning up and setting things into a better order.
I had an unexpected experience while volunteering for an Earth Day roadside cleanup this past weekend, yes, one of those with the gloves, orange vest, and the giant garbage bags and the grabber sticks. And coffee and donuts! Instead of making me feel better- more connected- part of something positive...I got really angry. Angry at everyone who had littered on that road, at every fast food restaurant within a 100 mile radius, at everyone who hadn't joined in the cleanup effort, and every car that sped by without slowing down even a bit. And that anger surprised me, until I really thought it through. Cleaning up someone else's mess is not something that gives me satisfaction in the moment, however once the mess is cleaned up and we can move past that into something better I am always happy. It happened last weekend and it's happened many times in my career.
As employees and managers in SUNY, we often need to clean up messes- our own and those created by other people. We should acknowledge that those efforts can create negative emotions like frustration and resentment. It would be wonderful to find good methods for helping our teams process and move through those emotions so that they can move past that and into a more positive and satisfying workspace.
Technical and functional messes are hard enough, but staffing "messes" (I don't like using that word in reference to people...can it be used for the situations people are in?) are the ones that really need our attention. Staff who are unproductive, uncollegial, act in biased ways, are suffering from biased actions against them, hate on their jobs and their customers, can't wait till retirement, are hurting and lashing out, have been worn down by toxic bosses or environments, are financially or emotionally or health stressed and it's spilling over into their work. Those situations need to be attended to with the best efforts we can bring to bear. And maybe coffee and donuts!
In case you are now or ever have been around one of those situations, here are a few resources that might help you with setting things into a better order:
- How Managers Can Change Toxic Workplaces And Build Effective Teams
- How to Heal a Wounded Workgroup You Inherit
- How To Deal With Racism At Work
- SUNY Work Life Balance
- WellNYS Everyday: Making better choices to be well and stay well
- Supporting Your Employees During Hard Times: A Manager's Guide
- Employer Toolkit: Work Design for Health
- Wisdom from women leaders in higher education
- How To Address Subtle, ‘Friendly’ Sexism At Work
If you have a go-to strategy, please share it with all of us on this list!
All the best,
Holly
WIT Weekly Wisdom: A message for SUNY WIT list subscribers on the topics of Connecting, Learning, Stretching, Teaching, Reaching, and Balancing.
Have a suggestion for a WIT Weekly Wisdom message? Contact Holly Heller-Ross at hellerhb@plattsburgh.edu.
Past and current posts are available on the SUNY WIT Weekly Blog.
Join the SUNY Women in Technology (WIT) listserv, send an email to: lyris@ls.suny.edu with the phrase “subscribe suny-wit” as the body of the message.